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The lost art of conversation

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Writing a speech for a special occasion

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A talk on silence and my reaction to it

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Pictorial adventures in London part 4

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How do I know if I being over-charged?

I never know when I am going to be fired up to write something and today was no exception. We have a localized group from social media called NextDoor.co.uk.  It’s content is 90% matters of local interest. People are very generous with their time and their contributions and it is a good site to belong to. My eye was caught by the article below:

I have a leaky shed, it is only 6x8ft , some guys came to see it, said it was a half days work, that they would leave felting on and cover it over paying articular care to the corner where it was leaking. The charge would be £250. I thought that was excessive and he said his day rate was £400, I make this to be £120,000 a year for a 5 day week. Am I, aged 80, out of touch? The advert is in the local REACH.

I have been among other things self-employed pretty much my whole working life and I am somewhat akin age-wise to the complainant. I have also purchased goods and services so I can write from both sides of the fence so to speak .

I will now take a deep breath and proceed. It is my hope that others will avoid falling into traps that it is so easy to do.

The overall rule would buying any goods or service is ‘caveat empator’ or buyer beware. In other words the onus is on us. This Latin phrase means that an individual buys at their own risk. Potential buyers are warned by the phrase to do their research and for example ask pointed and relevant questions to the seller. In this case, Joan R**** from Glastonbury has acted correctly in seeking advice and she has been given it in spade loads by the kind people of Next Door.

It is all too easy to cast someone in the role of bad guy but, folks, we must look at the position from both sides. Only fair, mate!

Older people

First of all, on the fact that the questioner is 80 years of age. I’m afraid that legally this is not relevant. A person is either compos mentis, of sound mind, or they are not. If the former, it behoves them to seek ‘on the ground’ support and advice.

When I have gardening clients on the aged side and I do not think that they are capable of understanding something, I ask a neighbour to be a witness. For example, if someone is partially sighted and asks for work it is wise to put something in writing. The work has finished, the witness or typically a neighbor should be called in to verify that the work has been done to good standard.

Have they done the whole job?

Part of any such work is taking away spoil and I have known people leave rubble in a corner,  promising to return shortly, and they never do. Ideally, the person you have engaged should take everything away with them at the time.

Naivety

Very common.  Another problem I find as the seller of work is the naivety of some customers. Typically, they have not requested professional help for some years and in the case of women, their husband who used to do everything has departed this life so yes, they are totally out of touch. Incidentally I find that older people are not naive but very sharp. They have to be in order to survive. It is the disconnected person that is a danger to themselves and indeed the lazy person.

Historical reflection

When I started work, it must have been in the late 70s, there were people who would work for a fiver an hour but typically it was man with spade for £10 an hour. Coming up to the current day, if you work for 20 pounds an hour this is an inclusive rate. Within this you have to find the following: Your equipment and the cost of maintaining it, travel costs, your own personal cost such as national insurance and tax and then there is your time. If you are employed by someone else, all these costs are covered and your salary of so much a year is your benefit to the company minus all the costs they have to pay including their profit.  If you are working for yourself, and get say 12 pounds out of the 20 for your self, for the maintenance of life for you and your family, I would say that is pretty good.

Estimating – guess work?

Estimating is an art but it is also a science. Those of us that offer work have to be very good at estimating a person’s circumstances and deciding how much they can afford. For most this may not be the way to move forward. Basically you are in a certain price range. The person can either afford it, or they cannot. I frequently go around to people and give them a price and they may decide to do it themselves or get a second opinion. When someone is a pensioner I may throw in extra features for no extra charge.

This is where Joan to whom this article is dedicated needs to go. If you go to three suppliers each of whom give you the same price, that is probably the going rate for the job.

When I turn up and quote for a job I do give the man hours so if there are two of us it’s £40 an hour, one person £20 an hour. Some people think that the 20 pounds covers two people. In that case I would be working for less than the minimum wage.

Crazy times, crazy prices

I remember once many years ago complaining about a quote from a dentist. He shrugged his shoulders and said ‘that is the price’. No one has to defend themselves. It’s not like we are selling water.  You can quote £1000 per hour and that’s not immoral it’s just stupid. You could charge £1 an hour and find yourself a laughing stock. Any incoming trader with any sense would see what others are charging and fall into line.

Glastonbury is a funny place, there’s a few streets that are very old-fashioned and there is a lot of council property on the outskirts. The main street is a world of its own about which I have written very frequently in this diary.

Certain types of trade are very much in demand and this is normally reflected in the price. There are certain areas in London, actually most of them, where parking is difficult and any job carries the risk of a parking fine which of course you cannot charge to the client. If people don’t want to work in such an area then you have to pay what is in effect of premium

How do you spot a bad supplier?

The term ‘Pikey’ is used for workers from the traveling population or gypsies if you like. I’m sorry to say that their reputation precedes them. If you get a knock on the door from someone who is so-called ‘working in the area’ then it’s 90% certain that they are suspicious. If someone asks for work and they live some distance away that is even more suspicious. For example, the man who prunes trees came from Frome.  Midsomer Norton is about 10 miles from from where he claimed to work from.

He had a very attractive postcard size advertisement saying that he did all sorts of things and called himself Mr Green. I have found through long experience that people who refer to themselves as Mr. or indeed Mrs are not to be trusted. I am sorry to say this, I don’t want to say it, but if you observe a trend over the decades then you say so.

If you receive a knock on the door from one of these people,ask  them where they got your name from if indeed they knew it in the first place.  If they say they were ‘just passing’, that is a dead giveaway and you should not engage in any further conversation. They cannot trespass on your property so just close the door. Other con artists can also be identified by their excessive politeness. Professional people maintain their distance. After a time you will get the idea.

Paying cash up front

Another thing you should try to avoid is to pay cash up front. With an established firm, if goods and materials have to be purchased then the suppliers should do so out of their own resources and give you an invoice or included as part of the bill. When I requested my plumber to get some new radiators he did so and charged me at the end. The point is that a radiator is nothing until it is successfully integrated with the system so it is only at that point that it becomes useful as opposed to a piece of useless metal.

There is an exception to this. If you are an unknown person, and you are asking for a substantial amount of work to be done, particularly if it is more towards intellectual property, then the firm concerned may decide that they do not wish to take the risk of non-payment and will ask you for an estimated initial contribution. This happens with legal firms.

There are people who come along with unrealistic expectations, they have no idea how much the work is going to cost or more importantly how much the escalation will cost. In a recent case in our Close someone disagreed with the builders about the construction of a wall and they ended up losing the case and having to find £22,000 in costs. Some actual like the thrill of combat.

In my own work, remote view consultations and healing, I will normally take advance payment from those I do not know. Once I get to know them, and they have paid me a couple of times, I take them at their word when they say that they will for example pay by a bank transfer

Being taken (or taking) to court

I have been taken to court once, and I am glad to say only once, by someone whose daughter thought that I had overcharged for a job when she was not present to see the detail. Litigation ran in the family as I was soon to learn. I eventually settled before any court proceedings could take place. The funniest thing was that it was only £150 that was in dispute. Believe me, any figure however insignificant  can escalate to the £1000s once the legal system gets into gear. Overall advice on this one, and this applies to every aspect of life, avoid court if you possibly can.

Another more subtle factor is that it can drain your life away from you. If you have a court date, say 8 months in the future, it never leaves you and you are forever rehearsing your arguments and the strength of your case, maybe losing sleep. The problem is that the law does not work logically and rationally. If you expect the law to be fair and human then you are in for a long wait. Sorry guys, that’s the way it is.

GREED

It is an unfortunate aspect of human nature that money brings out the worst in us and that includes duplicity and greed. The animal instinct seems to come out and people you thought were quite nice actually turn out to be marauding beasts in human form. One of the most unlovely scenarios are members of a family fighting over the will of the mother or father. I hear of people grabbing the rings off the newly deceased. Not a pretty thought.

The thin end of the wedge

Anyway, I digress.

Back to Joan. As a correspondent has correctly said, the leak may be what we call the thin end of the wedge. There may have been other issues which the leak is revealing which may indeed involve electricity or basic structural matters. People often try to do jobs themselves and actually make the problem worse so the quote may have included paying attention to such matters. The supplier of work is not going to include an item saying “£200 to correct the balls-up by an amateur doing a bodged job”.

Joan will do the right thing if she asks for a detailed written quote. That will put off most of the cowboys. She would also do the right thing if she asked for a second quote. The question is, who do you ask for a quote in the first place. Bringing up someone who just gives their name and phone number is a risky occupation. There are organizations such as RatedPeople and Checkatrade.

To be a trader you have to have references from a number of people. Also, Joan could ask around as she has correctly done in this case perhaps if a little late. Informal exchange of information, AKA Gossip, can be valuable.

.Never mind, Joan has not parted with any money.

Time for which you cannot charge

There is another factor that buyers of services tend to forget. It is the time taken to travel to and from an appointment to view, and the time taken to travel to and from the actual job. If you’re working in a place like Bath or indeed Bristol then there is time and stress from finding a parking place if you cannot use the front drive of the customers area.

Let’s say it takes the best part of half an hour to get to a job (avoid School opening and closing times). Even if it is near to another job it is still time consuming. Multiply that by four, or more if the job takes more than a day, and you have some idea of the time that cannot be charged for and somehow has to be covered.

Don’t be afraid to ask…..

On another matter, every worker should have professional insurance.  In order to obtain this they have to show relevant qualifications.  This means that if their drill goes through a junction box and blows up the house electrics, you can claim against their insurance company for consequential damage. I heard another case where someone fitted the flue of a wood burning stove and did not allow enough space between the flue and the surrounding floorboards. This set fire to the attic of the house and tens of thousands of pounds of damage was caused. The problem is that accidents or mishaps give no advance notice. Don’t be afraid to ask the supplier.

Bad trading habits

I recall another bad trader who said that he had a supply of tarmac and the cost was something ridiculous like three pounds a square meter. He was very pushy because he said the tarmac would call and become useless. The Living unit that I was in at the time eventually had to pay £1500.

I recall another trader to whom I complained about rising damp. He was a roofer and said it was due to a leaking roof and it would cost so many hundreds of pounds. Funnily enough, I called in another person who was a gutter specialist and said that it was due to a leak in a gutter. Now, both these may have an element of truce in them but I need someone to get to the root of the problem and so I declined both their offers.

The roofer put me off when he arrived because he had put on the most high powered deodorant which put me into a state when I could not breathe. He then rang me back twice to ask me whether I had thought about it. Calling people is not a good idea. They will make up their mind in their own time  – thank you very much – and provided you have furnished them with your telephone number or contact details then that’s job done and you move on.

Help from outside authorities

As for going to outside authorities such as Trading Standards, you have to go through hoops even to get their attention so typically, to qualify, you need to have written evidence that you have ordered the job, you need written evidence of payment, and you need a lot of evidence to show that the job was not well done. This will consume hours of your time and there will not be an instant response.

The Citizens Advice Bureau can be diplomats and smooth the way and thus avoid appearance at court. The earlier their advice is sought, the better, and the less expensive for the complainant. However, when I last observed, the CAB in Bath was overloaded and will no doubt become more so as people get poorer and struggle against inflation.

Lack of due diligence

In some cases with new workers it may be lack of experience on their part. I have known people who have promised to do work that was actually beyond them and they have had to give up. I am guilty of that myself when I went to see a disheveled garden in Peasedown, not examining the ground well enough and discovered that it had been used as a dumping ground for cinders, metal items etc far more than could be carried away even in the boot of my voluminous Volvo.

On that occasion I did a morning’s work and decided it was more than the £250 that I quoted so I wrote it off and walked away. Obviously I did not charge and he had a little bit of work done for him. Occasionally I have accepted work that is above my competence and that is partly due to my desire to please,  which is sometimes misplaced. Mea Culpa.

How do you estimate value?

Anyway, back to Joan and the quote. It is not relevant that the shed is only six by eight foot. If there were two people, divide the requested £250 by 2 and then take away the cost of materials and costs. There is not much left in the kitty. You always have to put a bit in for contingencies in other words unexpected discoveries that are more difficult to charge for (uplift is the term) during the work or indeed after it. I call the quote ‘not unreasonable’

Is bartering the answer?

It looks like Joan is going to get some free help which is good. Maybe those in genuine need should ask around this excellent community of Nextdoor and see if anyone is up to it. If ever the dreadful digital currency comes in and cash is abolished then bartering will become intrinsically more valuable in keeping society together.

Oh, to mention rules and regulations. I was once quoted £500 for a an electric link between the plug in my garden shed and another newly erected shed. Anything to do with electricity has a ton of rules and regulations attached to it and you have to follow them. If they do not follow them and a fire ensues, you as a worker will not be able to claim successfully in your insurance so it will have to come out of your own pocket. So, TO ME, it seemed a lot, but to the electrician he knows he has to go through all sorts of safety measures,

Unless you are in a position to judge the effect of these rules on the quote then you should decide …..is it worth it? Do you really need it? Could you do it yourself?  Could you call in a favour from a friend?

However, if it is dangerous NOT to proceed then bite the bullet and pay up. See it as an investment.

Joan and others – Hope that helps

Brian




Special – First Response Radio

Our Men’s Group breakfast meeting in Frome

Once every couple of months or so I go along to the nearest men’s group I can find. We meet either for breakfast,  curry evenings or Zoom meetings.    About a dozen of us met this morning  in Holy Trinity Church braving the semi-darkness, the frost and the fog.   We had a splendid fried breakfast cooked by a very obliging volunteer which included my favourite fried bread,   I know it’s not the healthiest food in the world but I love the crunch and the flavour.

It is very nice meeting with a group of people who are on the same wavelength, more specifically those with the same faith. I much prefer meeting with those who recognize the need to give to society as a reflection of the example of Jesus Christ who lived over 2,000 years ago in physical form as a messenger from God so to speak.

Today’s talk was from Mike Adams,  who from his accent I gathered that he is from the USA. He and his wife have worked as missionaries with Far East Broadcasting Company for 36 years and for the last 20 years specialised in setting up portable radio stations in times of dire need, where all  electricity-based communications have failed.   He was able to serve for example in the great storm  ‘Haiyan’ of 2013 that almost leveled the Philippines with flooding up to the second floor of buildings.

Almost 10,000 people were killed.  The good thing is that they can be there  on the ground with their equipment within days and the benefit of being a  small organization is that they can move quickly. In this case they arrived five days after the event.

Radio stations create a community within a community and play an invaluable part even after the catastrophic event has passed. It must be difficult to imagine for some life without this once temporary facility. This type of local radio station is different from a read broadcasting of national news which lacks the local micro examination of what is happening. True local radio is broadcast by the community for the community. After the immediate shock of the community, it is important for victims to find and attach themselves points of reliability and reasons to hope.

For a local radio station to appear within five days would be seen by the locals at something of a miracle. It is a service not only for information about physical things, such as the supply of food, but for mental distress. Such activities as playing music, giving encouragement, giving reassurance, is of inestimable value.

You can find out about the technical side of the organization on this website and you can also hear about First Response Radio which is the website relating to his work.

A Different Way of Doing Radio

A First Response Radio Team has a different role from the traditional media/reporting role.  The aim is not to relay information about the disaster to the rest of the world, but to meet the information and recovery needs of the affected community.  This is a new role for radio and it is often confused with traditional media reporting.

Local teams are trained and established in disaster prone countries, to respond within 72 hours to a disaster in their local area or country. Once trained, they can set up a radio station within an hour of arriving even in areas with no infrastructure remaining. They provide critical information to the affected community, and give the affected community a local voice. The aim is  to stay on the air through to the end of the Acute Emergency Phase  (around 30 days).

Faith and working things through

He was talking to us today particularly about the coincidences or so-called coincidences that have enabled him to be where he needed to be for example setting up an organization for another purpose which just happened to be situated near a disaster that was about to happen for example the Philippines typhoon.

He talked about the need for balance between work and play and said in a very moving comment – for me anyway – that “you should do things that give you joy”.

I can resonate to that because I’m so busy working most of the time for the good of mankind but at the same time tended to neglect my own physical and mental welfare.   This last week was an example of me taking time off away from the computer, not needing to take part in the cooking or washing up process, just having fun with a group of similarly minded people and going to new places.

He has often wondered what he should be doing next and he says that if you take one step forward, God will provide the inspiration and you will then know that He is with you.  I liken it to my GPS on my car where – if you stand still – it will not know which direction you are going and cannot perform as a GPS, but if you move forward it will then trigger you to going the right direction.  I believe that stepping forward in faith fires up the powers above and we if we wish can be continually guided.

Mike finds that his wife often gets the first intimation that they should be ‘on the move’ geographically. This is the challenge of faith in an organization which by its nature must expect the unexpected. Nature does not play by the rule book, not our rule book anyway, so we need a special type of faith driven resonance.

This reminds me of the group Médecins Sans Frontières  where medical teams go wherever they are needed in times of emergency where lives are at risk

He spoke of in times of need  that ‘the wind blew’ in response to prayer, equipment turned up just when it was needed. He gave an example of cables that they had been waiting for for six years and on that very day of need they received a phone call saying that ‘funding has been received so we are sending off the equipment today’.

Mike spoke of the possibility of retiring in two to three years time but I retorted that I have never seen a person who is more unlikely to retire. He said that he would be free of the restrictions placed on him by an organization and would be free to use his skill sets in other ways.

Again, I can relate to that because although I am officially retired, I’ve got so many projects on the go I’m more busy than when I did what I call normal work, whatever the word ‘normal’ means.

Where are the younger people?

It is a pity that more local men were there to hear this excellent address. I am refreshed by listening to people who have walked their talk and speak from first-hand experience. They have the power to encourage everyone including myself who was inspired to write this article. The average age of our group is probably about retiring age, 65 or so and I wonder what it takes to get younger people involved.

As my acupuncturist once remarked, people don’t start to think about the important factors of life such as health until they retire. This certainly in my observation includes matters of faith. I suppose unless you’ve been bought up by Godly parents you would not have much interest in spirituality and religion because you are still in the world of consumerism and living life on this physical plain.

In our prayer after the talk I prayed for people who needed help but did not know how to ask or whom to ask. It is a big topic but briefly we can fall into the trap of thinking that we are the only person suffering from a particular condition. This can paralyze us. People can also hesitate to ask for help because of pride, or shame. It’s easy to say ‘there is nothing to be ashamed of’ but if the roots of this shame go back to perhaps being helpless as a child and having had your request for help ignored, it is not so easy just to brush off the past.

As our speaker said today, you do not so easily forget certain scenes of violence or death, it’s just that they go to further back in the queue.

I repeat:  with regard to people’s general interest in spirituality, I reckon unless something catastrophic happens  such as a serious accident or a disease such as cancer, they’re probably isn’t enough reason to tempt you away from this three-dimensional world towards another level of reality. I suppose people might have previously asked themselves ‘what’s in it for me then?’

In my own case, I believe in the power of example and showing people perhaps subliminally, that there is more to life than self-interest and it is the benefit of the greater good that we should all be focused on if only as a means of survival.

As the Good Book says, ‘we are members one of another’. You could write a good few books on the wisdom contained in that one verse.




A Court case without a court

Not being able to sleep last night, I arose and had a look at some of the programs stored on my Sky box.   I found a series featuring John Cleese who had been given a series of 10 programs by GB news to do what he liked.  He was called something like the Dinosaur Hour. He was talking about wokeness.

Before I start, I should mention that it was extremely difficult to hear what he had to say because to put it bluntly, his teeth need attention. If you know someone who has left out their dentures and they speak, you will understand what I’m saying.  The mouth and throat are an echo chamber and they need to work together.  Cleese was unable to project his voice and so you have to listen more carefully.  I’m sure no one has got the guts to tell him.  Anyway I stuck with him because I have a regard for him going back to my formative years.

He was trying to understand the topic of wokeness. He had approached up to 10 ‘woke’ people who refused to speak to him so found an intermediary person, an academic, who was willing and able to explain the whole thing.  You can find the whole series on GB news if you wish to look, but basically the mores are that everyone has to be inclusive, no one must be offended or upset, no one must be marginalized. We can offend them unknowingly by the use of incorrect words.  However, this is one way traffic. They can abuse and insult us, but we cannot do the same to them.

The question is, what are the criteria? What happens if you fall outside their criteria? We all know the answer to that. The unfortunate person concerned is cancelled or fired. This has happened to nearly 200 professors  alone which is even more than the 150 professors in the McCarthy era in the 1950s in the States. One of their weaknesses is that they take the meaning of our words as they interpret them. There is no discussion.

Let’s take the case of JC Rowling. the famous author. She received a huge amount of hate mail including death threats for saying that there are only two biological sexes, men and women.  The friend of hers who related the story, a children’s writer for a big publisher, told how she was sacked for supporting JC in her campaign via a Twitter text. The hate mail from anonymous people towards her evidently frightened publishing houses and others,  not to mention the general public, into deciding that people like her should be marginalized  or at least censored. Why are well meaning authorities scared by such brainless nonsense?

To me the frightening and significant thing is that you cannot even ask a question of the woke movement  about why they have the views they do,  because even this is regarded as discrimination.  It is an authoritarian system not based on logic, thinking, sharing, coming to a conclusion, but the simple fact that if you even attempt any critique means that you are automatically a bad person. They are good, you are (potentially) bad. So that’s it then.

I have not come across many of these people but when I do they will get short shrift from me.  So as I said in my heading, this is a judgment of a ‘court’ by anonymous  plaintiffs on social media given without reason or logic.  The fact that this can even take place in a university  which is supposed to develop the faculty for critical thought amongst more intelligent minds. This is quite shocking. After three years going down rabbit holes I am still shocked by some things and this is one of them.

Wokeism  is the quickest and most effective way of turning a person who is potentially capable of intellectual thought into a retard.

Talking of being shocked, another thing I was shocked about is Oprah Winfrey saying on U.S. TV that it should be OK for adult males to stroke the penises of seven-year-old boys as ‘they might like it’ if done properly.  She is well up there or down there with the paedophiles and child traffickers. No one in the audience seemed to react.

The time has come, the walrus said, to talk of many things.  This is from ‘The Walrus and the Carpenter’ by Lewis Carroll.

The relevant verse is

The time has come,’ the Walrus said,
to talk of many things:
Of shoes — and ships — and sealing-wax
Of cabbages — and kings
And why the sea is boiling hot
And whether pigs have wings.’

Is it our time as I sit at my computer on a bright Saturday morning to consider whether our morals or our characters are worth fighting for, or whether we are going down the plug hole as human beings. All we have to do is ……. do nothing.

Back to Israel
So I watch the so-called ceasefire, day 2. The israelis are going to release about 130 hostages but over the period they have detained At least three thousand hostages. They are teasing beings that they regard as subhuman, deliberately prolonging the agony. While they detain people they bully and beat them

How we came to live here in Somerset

Today,  following on yesterday’s celebratory lunch, we toasted our 11 years as residents of Midsomer Norton. In a way, it seems like yesterday.

I was living in a property in Dulwich and she was living in a rented property, a housing association between Chalk Farm and Hampstead. We both wanted to move in together but in London that would have been impossible.

Françoise’s mother departed this life at such a time to make a  substantial amount of available funds in her will to her. We were thus able to consider buying a property. We knew we had to be somewhere south west but had no idea so we did a process of elimination by driving to places that we were not sure about, but at least we wanted to delete certain areas from our wish list. One of these was Bristol which was far too expensive and properties did not seem to have a garden. We inspected one house which had been occupied by an Indian family; the walls and the wallpaper certainly bore out their tastes. It took about 3 minutes for us to decide ‘no’.

We also went to the coast, Western-Super-Mare which was frankly a little bit down market. Clevedon, on the coast, had a delightful character but we felt it was a bit remote for communications. It’s all about public transport in case we cannot drive for ever. Frome was definitely a place of culture but there is a divide between council property land and the historical center. The latter’s properties are way beyond our reach and have very small gardens. The same can be said for the more desirable parts of Bath and indeed of Wells. With bath I don’t like the hills.

We visited Midsomer Norton briefly and I noticed that a stream running down the High Street was maintained and in good order and that told me that the management of this small and unpretentious town was good.

We found a local agent and one Monday morning they rang up and said they had a property for us. Without hesitation I agreed to come down from London. We arrived if I recall on Tuesday and before we walked in the door we said yes. It is a question whether we chose the property or the property chose us.  I suspect the latter. You could invent all sorts of esoteric reasons why this should pertain but at the end of the day there was an attraction that was a visceral. There was no question about it.

The cost was within our budget. The sellers took some persuasion (argument between the family) but our agent waved in front of them the fact that we were cash buyers and there was no chain so I think that was the fact of that did it. By the time we arrived to view we were told that five other people were interested. I think that living in a Close is safer because strangers are noticed so from the burglary point of view the incidents over the last 10 years can be numbered on the fingers of one hand.

As for moving, it was traumatic second only to being divorced. So much could go awry. We drove down in seperate cars and followed the van which dutifully disgorged our possessions. Francoise’ removal company was a bit more tricky since they had quoted over the phone and underestimated the amount of material so two trips were required. We spent the first few months sleeping on a mattress on the floor and then finally got a proper bed from a local company. I will give a tip to anyone thinking of  putting a mattress on the floor. No draft >  damp > mold. When we eventually took it off the floor we were horrified at the growth that had taken place. It cannot have done our respiratory systems much good.

I cannot say we are close to our neighbours but we know them and a nodding acquaintance is actually sufficient. Most of them have lived in the area all their lives and are parochial in their attitudes. We have both lived quite different lives. I have traveled to many places including South Africa, 20 times, the USA, 40 times for various business and personal reasons. I met up with someone in New York and briefly stayed there but that was not a success.

The area where we are living is not the center of the cultural world but it is extremely convenient for access to Wells, Frome, Bath, Bristol, Cheddar, Glastonbury, all of which have their special features. We also got here what the Americans would call ‘more bangs for the buck’. We have a three-bedroom accommodation with the decent size garden and access to local allotments which I ran for some time.

The mood in cities is more fractious and unsettling than here and there is more EMF, particularly 5G. In rural Somerset, people are not so aware of trends in the world; this is a disadvantage but also an advantage. We have to work a little harder to find people who are on our wavelength but they are around. We can invite people to stay with us and they seem to enjoy the environment.

Of course in the last 11 years our property has increased in value, about £100,000, but this is academic.  We currently find no calling to go elsewhere and anyway with the possible advent of the worldwide virtual currencies systems, impeding control from the world Health Organization, who is going to say that other places will be better or worse than where we are at the moment. What we have currently is stability and that will do just fine. The weather is colder and rainier than we would like but then you can’t have everything.

There is enough culture in Bristol, Bath and Frome but we have to decide whether we have enough energy to visit these places especially evening events in the winter when I no longer like to drive even on well lit roads. I cannot cope so well with oncoming cars who do not dip their headlights.

Our days of gardening are coming to a close and fortunately we have enough in the kitty to be able to survive without such activities.

‘Brixton Village’

We do enjoy visiting London but only for short periods. We only go by coach as the train is 2-3 times more expensive.  I go there from time to time to keep my sister company. She is currently on her own. London has changed but it is cosmopolitan enough to accept the refugees and integrate them into society. My favorite place of all is Brixton Market (above) because you find all nationalities mixing and working together in harmony and that is how it should be throughout the world. I prefer the restaurant section.   Next time I go I will write a report.

It is a funny feeling riding on the buses in London. I find myself on the upper deck of the number 3 bus which goes from Oxford Circus to near Crystal Palace and sometimes I am the only white person on the deck. I do not mind and feel quite at home. Travel costs are quite steep and last visit we paid £69 for a seven-day pass which includes travel areas 1 to 5. Actually, if you work it out and do a lot of traveling it is quite cheap per journey. The pass gives you travel by all means including bus, train, underground.




A largely local day – chips and porridge

This is a day to celebrate local institutions. We had breakfast at the ” Fat Boyz cafe” at Gravel Hill, Seldson, Croydon. Traditional menu, well cooked up market from the greasy spoon model, lots of local faithful customers, a waitress who is business like and with whom you do not mess.

We saw a man and his son eating breakfast. The son was being very difficult about his food, he must have been about 4 years of age. The father says that his child ‘only eats chips and porridge’. Without being judgmental, I was reflecting on how this situation could have arisen. Did he not have the discipline? Was this a single parent who chose the way of least resistance? Will this child grow out of it? It was not the right opportunity to discuss this with the child there but it did leave a lot of questions hanging in the air.


We took a train from East Croydon to Finsbury Park via the city of London. Never ask someone to meet you at Finsbury Park station without saying exactly where. It is a complicated station with multiple entrances.
We ordered a pizza from a nearby establishment which was empty save a few couples but then it was early in the day. The pizza cost about 12 pounds and we divided it into three.
We went to investigate the common land adjacent to Seven Sisters Road but on the way bought some bread, still hot in a likely to be Jewish bakery. The bread is braided and was slightly sweet similar to bagels. I also bought a custard fruit dessert which was good on appearance but bad on the substance. I could say the same of the cakes.
On the Park we found communal land and a very nicely developed children’s area which in better weather would be the ideal place to escape from an overcrowded City

We arrived home at 5:30 and at six o’clock went to see a friend of my sister’s called Carol. She was with her nephew Ben and daughter Lucy. This was a privilege to meet a family where so much was going on. Her husband, who I was told by my sister was not in the best of health had passed a few months before, but you could never tell that from the demeanor of Carol who was bright and sparkling and had a brightly burning flame within her.

Ben is a ‘motorcycle enthusiast’ to put it mildly. He had toured Europe and Scandinavia and now plans to ride from UK to Sydney. He was sparkling with optimism and a ‘can do’ attitude which I found so exciting. Talk about feet on the ground and head in the clouds.

Carol said she was not religious, if that is the case then non-religion has to be congratulated. She had clearly rejected a version of Christianity, possibly the Old Testament version, that I have also largely rejected. We did not have time to develop this conversation. Interestingly, her brother lives in Frome so maybe if she comes to from we can meet her.

Back home for a carrots soup with cheese, bread and fruit concluded a very interesting day with lots happening on the human side.